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In the latest installment of “For Love & Money,” a column addressing relationship and money questions, a reader grapples with inheritance issues and complex family dynamics.
The reader, a struggling musician, faces financial difficulties exacerbated by the loss of side income due to a name verification problem. Harboring resentment towards their mother for past decisions that impacted their music career, the reader plans to request a larger share of inheritance to advance their career.
Columnist Jen Glantz advises separating personal and financial issues, emphasizing the importance of setting practical career goals while maintaining a passion for music. Glantz encourages finding stable employment and creating a budget, suggesting teaching college as a viable career path.
Addressing the complex parent-child relationship, Glantz stresses the significance of forgiveness and moving past resentment. She emphasizes empowerment through personal choices and taking control of one’s life.
Regarding the inheritance request, Glantz recommends approaching siblings with honesty and confidence, presenting a clear plan without blaming the mother. She advises accepting the siblings’ decision gracefully, regardless of the outcome.
The column concludes with encouragement for the reader to believe in themselves and communicate effectively with their siblings. Readers are invited to submit their questions to the “For Love & Money” column.
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